diff --git a/plume-common/src/activity_pub/inbox.rs b/plume-common/src/activity_pub/inbox.rs
index f9f0e8b..ca64c8b 100644
--- a/plume-common/src/activity_pub/inbox.rs
+++ b/plume-common/src/activity_pub/inbox.rs
@@ -31,7 +31,7 @@ pub trait Notify<C> {
 
 pub trait Deletable<C, A> {
     fn delete(&self, conn: &C) -> A;
-    fn delete_id(id: String, conn: &C);
+    fn delete_id(id: String, actor_id: String, conn: &C);
 
 }
 
diff --git a/plume-models/src/follows.rs b/plume-models/src/follows.rs
index 145b360..688f54e 100644
--- a/plume-models/src/follows.rs
+++ b/plume-models/src/follows.rs
@@ -122,9 +122,13 @@ impl Deletable<Connection, Undo> for Follow {
         undo
     }
 
-    fn delete_id(id: String, conn: &Connection) {
+    fn delete_id(id: String, actor_id: String, conn: &Connection) {
         if let Some(follow) = Follow::find_by_ap_url(conn, id) {
-            follow.delete(conn);
+            if let Some(user) = User::find_by_ap_url(conn, actor_id) {
+                if user.id == follow.follower_id {
+                    follow.delete(conn);
+                }
+            }
         }
     }
 }
diff --git a/plume-models/src/likes.rs b/plume-models/src/likes.rs
index ba586b3..8c281a0 100644
--- a/plume-models/src/likes.rs
+++ b/plume-models/src/likes.rs
@@ -107,9 +107,13 @@ impl Deletable<Connection, activity::Undo> for Like {
         act
     }
 
-    fn delete_id(id: String, conn: &Connection) {
+    fn delete_id(id: String, actor_id: String, conn: &Connection) {
         if let Some(like) = Like::find_by_ap_url(conn, id.into()) {
-            like.delete(conn);
+            if let Some(user) = User::find_by_ap_url(conn, actor_id) {
+                if user.id == like.user_id {
+                    like.delete(conn);
+                }
+            }
         }
     }
 }
diff --git a/plume-models/src/posts.rs b/plume-models/src/posts.rs
index 0c69100..c0a3213 100644
--- a/plume-models/src/posts.rs
+++ b/plume-models/src/posts.rs
@@ -479,8 +479,15 @@ impl Deletable<Connection, Delete> for Post {
         act
     }
 
-    fn delete_id(id: String, conn: &Connection) {
-        Post::find_by_ap_url(conn, id).map(|p| p.delete(conn));
+    fn delete_id(id: String, actor_id: String, conn: &Connection) {
+        let actor = User::find_by_ap_url(conn, actor_id);
+        let post = Post::find_by_ap_url(conn, id);
+        let can_delete = actor.and_then(|act|
+            post.clone().map(|p| p.get_authors(conn).into_iter().any(|a| act.id == a.id))
+        ).unwrap_or(false);
+        if can_delete {
+            post.map(|p| p.delete(conn));
+        }
     }
 }
 
diff --git a/plume-models/src/reshares.rs b/plume-models/src/reshares.rs
index 6d4ec37..575ee49 100644
--- a/plume-models/src/reshares.rs
+++ b/plume-models/src/reshares.rs
@@ -120,9 +120,13 @@ impl Deletable<Connection, Undo> for Reshare {
         act
     }
 
-    fn delete_id(id: String, conn: &Connection) {
+    fn delete_id(id: String, actor_id: String, conn: &Connection) {
         if let Some(reshare) = Reshare::find_by_ap_url(conn, id) {
-            reshare.delete(conn);
+            if let Some(actor) = User::find_by_ap_url(conn, actor_id) {
+                if actor.id == reshare.user_id {
+                    reshare.delete(conn);
+                }
+            }
         }
     }
 }
diff --git a/src/inbox.rs b/src/inbox.rs
index 831e9bb..5819867 100644
--- a/src/inbox.rs
+++ b/src/inbox.rs
@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ pub trait Inbox {
                     },
                     "Delete" => {
                         let act: Delete = serde_json::from_value(act.clone())?;
-                        Post::delete_id(act.delete_props.object_object::<Tombstone>()?.object_props.id_string()?, conn);
+                        Post::delete_id(act.delete_props.object_object::<Tombstone>()?.object_props.id_string()?, actor_id.into(), conn);
                         Ok(())
                     },
                     "Follow" => {
@@ -49,15 +49,15 @@ pub trait Inbox {
                         let act: Undo = serde_json::from_value(act.clone())?;
                         match act.undo_props.object["type"].as_str().expect("Inbox::received: undo without original type error") {
                             "Like" => {
-                                likes::Like::delete_id(act.undo_props.object_object::<Like>()?.object_props.id_string()?, conn);
+                                likes::Like::delete_id(act.undo_props.object_object::<Like>()?.object_props.id_string()?, actor_id.into(), conn);
                                 Ok(())
                             },
                             "Announce" => {
-                                Reshare::delete_id(act.undo_props.object_object::<Announce>()?.object_props.id_string()?, conn);
+                                Reshare::delete_id(act.undo_props.object_object::<Announce>()?.object_props.id_string()?, actor_id.into(), conn);
                                 Ok(())
                             },
                             "Follow" => {
-                                Follow::delete_id(act.undo_props.object_object::<Like>()?.object_props.id_string()?, conn);
+                                Follow::delete_id(act.undo_props.object_object::<Like>()?.object_props.id_string()?, actor_id.into(), conn);
                                 Ok(())
                             }
                             _ => Err(InboxError::CantUndo)?