For other reasons we wrap the adapters in a wxDataObject, which has
delayed destruction semantics, but that means the settings stuff may
no longer be around when the d'tor executes.
Fixes https://gitlab.com/kicad/code/kicad/issues/12371
Also makes sure the progress dialog is closed when we're done reading
symbols (it used to stay up for much of the symbol editor initialization).
Also makes sure that any cancel in the preLoad step is honoured in the
sync step. (The preload is done because it is multi-threaded and therefore
faster than the single-threaded sync.)
Also makes sure that individual threads pay attention to the cancellation,
not just the GUI thread.
Fixes https://gitlab.com/kicad/code/kicad/issues/8372
Jon Evans
Jeff Young